Many prodigal spouses are tempted into divorcing the standing spouse. They believe it will rid them of their guilt. The affair partner becomes excited believing they were finally chosen.
Actually they were never chosen; they were only relieving themselves of the sexual sin. Kinda like when a person masturbates and feels disgusted after relieving themselves. The relationship was only a distraction to cover up the guilt and shame.
The prodigal spouse will deal with inward torment and thoughts spewing uncontrollably like diarrhea.
So they believe the only way to be free from the quote unquote torment is to get rid of the spouse.
Only to discover once that is done, and the high is over it was only a sacrifice because they would not obey God.
They sacrificed their children, their spouse, and their legacy for the sake of fun living in sin. Once reality kicks in it’s no longer fun when the fantasy is over.
This is why obedience is better than sacrifice. The spirit of the strange man or woman always needs a sacrifice, or an offering.
Why??? Because it’s actually an altar they are giving into. They will give up their children as instructed, their wife, their home, their finances will be wasted away in this new lifestyle of false peace.
I have seen some prodigal spouse go from one job to three to feed this altar. Or they make a substantial salary but it’s never enough. Whilst having nothing to show for it. It’s not peace but it’s a peace offering.
It’s chaotic and confusion. They will began to notice they gave up a lot without any reciprocity in this new situation-ship. The situation-ship will soon end when that altar is no longer being fed.
Side note: An altar is a meeting place between the natural realm and supernatural realm.
If he/she (prodigal spouse) doesn’t renew the contract and return home the altar will speak. You cannot go back home. Did you back with your husband/wife? Oh you will regret it. Your karma is coming. Etc.
These statements above are the altar speaking against the marriage. I heard these things in sessions and even in my marriage when my husband first attempt to return home.
The spirit of the strange man or woman feeds on pain. Not knowing once the prodigal spouse wise up their eyes will open. Crying out to God what have I done????
Many prodigals have been bewitched, through their rebellion with cause. We know scripture says a curse cannot land without a cause.
Some spouse will appear like they are being controlled by a remote control because this altar will direct their next move until they repent and give their life over to Christ.
—Jacie Hutchins